Panty Boy Basics
What are Panty Boy Confessions? If you’re reading this, you already know the truth: panties aren’t “just underwear.”
They’re a trigger. A mood shift. A secret that makes your heart beat faster.
And if you call yourself a panty boy—even joking—you’re probably in deeper than you admit.
The First Pair Panty Boy
Some of the panty boys I talk to are brand new. Is this you? You decided to try on a pair
and now you can’t stop thinking about it. You’re excited, nervous, and obsessed with the question: “Is a Panty Boy what I am now?”
The Veteran Panty Boy
Then there are the guys who’ve been wearing panties for years.
You’ve got favorites, preferences, and drawers/suitcases/closets that tells the whole story.
You’re not confused—you know what you like. You know what works, what doesn’t, and you are always open to finding the next cute outfit.
Closet Panty Boy
A huge number of panty boys keep it private.
No one knows. Not your friends, not your partner, sometimes not even your best friend.
You like it that way: your secret, your personal time, your private little (throbbing) thrill.
Out and About Panty Boy
Some of you aren’t hiding at all.
You are a Panty Boy who likes being seen, even if it’s subtle: a hint of lace, a lacy bra strap peeking out, panty lines, a deliberate choice.
It’s not an accident—it’s a quiet form of confidence that turns you on.
Bi Hookup Panty Boy
It’s true, not all but plenty of panty boys hook up with guys.
For some, it’s about being desired in a more feminine role, being pursued, being handled differently.
You’re not looking for an identity lecture—you’re looking for a specific kind of turn on.
Straight-and-Secret Panty Boy
And some of you don’t hook up with guys at all.
You’re into women, and panties are simply part of how you unwind, fantasize, and feel yourself.
It’s private dressing, private pleasure, private control of your own fantasy.
Feminization Panty Boy
For a lot of you, panties are the gateway.
Then it becomes the rest: shaving, lipstick, perfume, naughty lingerie, heels, and overall presentation—details matter. You want to know how you can become even more feminine.
You don’t want to “try something on.” You want to step into a version of yourself.
Humiliation-Loving Panty Boy
Some panty boys don’t just want to feel pretty—they want to be teased for it.
You want a sensuous woman to call you out, correct you, and keep you deliciously embarrassed.
Not because you’re broken—because you’re wired for that sting.
Extreme Humiliation Panty Boy
Yes — you’re broken. That’s the point. You don’t “wear panties,” you live for the shame of it, and you’d panic without it.
You want to be known as a panty boy even if you never say it out loud. The truth leaks out anyway — in your eyes, your nervous smile, the way you linger in lingerie aisles begging to be noticed.
And people do notice. The salesgirls know. The friends of your ex know. They clock you instantly — and you secretly love being their little joke.
Panty Boy on the Phone
The way I talk with panty boys depends on who you are and what you want.
Sometimes it’s playful guidance for the beginner. Sometimes it has more bite for the experienced panty boys who want structure, humiliation, and even punishment. But it always comes back to the same thing: you want to be seen as your panty boy self.
What Kind of Panty Boy Are You?
If you’re just starting, you’re not alone.
If you’ve been doing this for years, you’re not unusual—you’re simply honest about what turns you on.
So tell me: are you a first-pair panty boy, a closet panty boy, or a veteran with a drawer full of secrets?
Other required reading:
Time to Confess: Let’s Talk About Your Feminization Fantasies!
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Stroker boys, you can email me directly at Audrey@enchantrixempire.com with any further questions. Texting sessions are via Discord: LDW_Audrey. If you’re looking to purchase an email package from me, CLICK HERE!
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I’m always happy to discuss anything you like during your session. If you’re in the mood for girlie talk, or want to take some time to talk about work, your relationship or anything on your mind I’m happy to do that too.
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Looking forward to chatting with you soon!
xo Mistress Audrey
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Yes as well being put in bras by you!!! I’ve tried to deny/say no but you’ve told me no guy would ever wear bras/panties especially sneaking into girlfriends lingerie drawer wearing them along with dresses/makeup/lipstick and heels in which I’ve done and now you’ve made me your sissy girl telling all the other mistresses along with putting sissy collar around my neck
Snow White I love dressing you up and giving you lipstick kisses along with all the other ladies here at LDW! You fit into many of the categories in my blog!!xx
I am an Extreme Humiliation Panty Boy, Mistress Audrey, and I know that you know that but I want to contribute to your blog.
My ex-wife used to make me wear panties instead of a Speedo when we went on vacation.
Whether we were at the beach or hanging at the pool, I was in the panties.
She especially like watching me squirm when she’d send me to the pool bar to get drinks or when she’d engage other couples in conversation to make me feel the burn of embarrassment standing there talking in panties.
My favorite part of this story (as you well know Thomas) is when J. waved you over in front of everyone at the pool with her little finger! Hahah everyone KNOWS what that means!!
OMG I will never forget that as long as I live. I can see her condescending smirk as though it’s happening right now.
I’ve never mentioned it but you may enjoy knowing that, upon seeing my reaction of surprised embarrassment, she gave me a “whatever” shrug on top of it to drive home the point that I was powerless to object.
And she was right. It was an embarrassing and very erotic week.
Thomas, I still see you shaking and shuddering in delight from the humiliation! Hahah! We’ll have to revisit that again soon! SmirkSmirk 😉
I’ve been wearing panties for years and the only person who knows about it is my wife. She even sometimes goes shopping with me. I basically don’t wear men’s underwear anymore. I only have few boxers when I go for a massage or to the pool or somewhere where I might have a problem, otherwise I just wear panties of all kinds. I love thongs, but they are sometimes a problem because they are small and so lately I like to buy comfortable, shiny, mostly satin ones :))
Thanks for your great blog MsAudrey!
Thanks for stopping by Casandra! So great that your wife even shops with you! I’m glad you’re finding the panties that suit you perfectly!
The Veteran Panty Boy
Just today I went to the gym wearing light pink compression shorts, my panties we’re pink and black, you could see the outline from my backside. I love being seen in my panties plus I had on my nub cage which you could see from the front.
Great Panty report Kimmy! Love that you are rocking those panties at the gym too!
Yay! Mistress Audrey…”Panties”. ❤️
Definitely I admit I am a Panty Boy, but what type?
I often refer to panties as my “Gateway Garment”. Years ago…wait…Years and years ago, stepping into that first pair of exquisite femininity was a step in the right direction.
That would put me in the Veteran category.
But yet I could qualify for half of Straight Secret.
Several people in my vanilla world Joe of my fondness for frillies…negating my Secret and Closet categories.
Feminization? Absolutely! A dress without panties?
Unconscionable!
When I am on the phone with Mistress? Pantied of course! (And caged…but that’s another blog topic!)
Humiliation Panty boy?
Of course. The Mistresses like to tease me about my panties…and what’s not in my panties too!🥰🤭🤏)
Wow Mistress Audrey that covers a lot of Panty boy ground!
I’m a regular Jekyll and Hyde…and Hyde, and Hyde…and so forth.
Thank you Mistress Audrey for such a fun blog🥰. And a chance to say panties so many times. Even the word is adorable!🥰
Lil Peg I would expect nothing less than a full panty report from you! I love teasing you about your secret panty life…looking forward to a good chat soon!
xx
It feels great.When younger I was constantly turned on by my idea of a beautiful woman.It was very strong.I am still turned on by women.I think I am transferring the femininity.I read somewhere the things we want the most are the things we cannot have.Some of my traits are human traits that perhaps women have more than men.
Then when in an erotic mindset it feels so good to be obedient to a woman.
For me alot of it is fun and fantasy.
In my 24/7 life I have alot of dominant characteristics.
That being said I have trained my mind to so enjoy being feminine and submissive.It feels so good.
I certainly do not have all the answers.I want to fully enjoy my femininity and my submissive characteristics.
Gigi, thank you for sharing! I love that you have such a good understanding of what you find fun and enjoying your feminine and submissive side as well as having another side too. xx