What’s Your Secret?

I hear many secrets in the course of a day. Sometimes I’m the only one my caller can confide in. Other times, the ‘secret’ is something that others know about but don’t approve of. If you have been hesitating to call, thinking that your secret is so dark that you can’t bring yourself to share, you’ll want to follow along with this week’s Our Little Secret series.

Do You Love Spandex?

We do not all have the same secrets. For example, today’s Little Secret touches on a spandex fetish. I recently spoke with a Spandex Loves who loves to wear tight and revealing spandex and gets aroused when women see him wearing spandex. He will go to open houses and look for apartments so he can go on a house tour with an attractive female real estate agent, who often can’t help but notice what a hard on he’s getting.

Even if you don’t fantasize about wearing spandex, perhaps you enjoy knowing that a woman can see you getting aroused…A few times my Spandex Lover has gotten so aroused in his spandex that he admitted to the real estate agent that he was about to cum.

Best Spandex Story: One time my Spandex Lover got so aroused in his spandex that he came in front of a real estate agent and it dripped all over the kitchen floor. Without missing a beat, this lady cleaned up his mess and then blotted his spandex. Now that’s customer service!

p.s. Make sure to delve into the index of my past posts. I cover many fascinating and taboo topics that may be of interest to you, for example you may enjoying finding out more about Finding the Right Mistress. Or you might enjoy reading up on some of my favorite Cuckold posts.

I work most evenings after 8pm PST/ 11pm EST and several afternoons during the week. Please feel free to email me if you want to schedule a specific time.

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How To Give Up Power and Control: Part 3

Today is the third installment of my How To Give Up Power and Control series designed to help you get the most from your submissive relationship with me. Many callers have a sense of the feeling that they want to experience, but don’t know how to put it into words. Here are some suggestions and possibilities to enjoy a satisfying submissive experience with me.

BEING TEASED AND CONTROLLED

Perhaps you’d love to be teased over a period of time? I can give you a way, via e-mail or chat, to say “uncle”, so go ahead and ask, beg and tell me that you must have release because you ache so much for me that you can’t stand it…but it will ultimately be up to me to decide when and how you will release.

BEING PUNISHED

Sometimes callers will release after a call where they are denied without my permission by just looking at my photos or dreaming of me standing over them. Losing physical control over their desire to please and obey me can be quite embarrassing! They will beg for forgiveness in our next session and know that I don’t have to raise a finger to punish them. They have already punished themselves {and often turn themselves on even more in the process} with the humiliation of not being strong enough to deny themselves and even worse, having to admit it to me. They will hang their heads in shame and beg forgiveness, and this humiliation can be extremely gratifying for both of us!

ADDITIONAL FANTASIES

We can easily do a guided session, a giantess session, or humiliation scenario that may include sissy elements. You just need to let me know what you’re looking for or in the mood for. Some of my clients will email me a day before our scheduled calls and tell me what they’ve been thinking about. I also know that the core of what you are looking for doesn’t change. A giantess session, humiliation, and/or sissification can certainly add spice to the mix, but I know that for you it’s really all about your addiction to the control that you’ve given me…the addiction to me getting into your head and rendering you helpless to do anything but obey me!

I hope this three part series on How To Give Up Power and Control has been helpful for you and I look forward to your comments and questions.

SCHEDULING AN APPOINTMENT

I normally work evenings after 8pm PST/11pm EST every evening, but am striving to be available during the afternoons a few days a week for those of you who are unable to connect in the evenings. Afternoons times are still in the beta phase, so thank you in advance for your patience while I work out a viable afternoon schedule. I’m also able to schedule morning appointments with you as long as I have advance notice, just email me at audrey@enchantrixempire.com so we can work out a time that works.

WHAT’S NEXT

Make sure to stop by next week for a refresher on how I can satisfy your wildest Foot Fetishes. For a quick recap on yesterday’s discussion on Strict vs Sensual, Being Owned, Complete Denial, and Alternatives to Denial: click here. For a brush up on the first installment of How To Give Up Power and Control: click here.

p.s. Make sure to delve into the index of my past posts. I cover many fascinating and taboo topics that may be of interest to you, for example you may enjoying finding out more about my explosive edging technique, and one of the ways I love to control you.

Giving Up Power and Control: Part 2

As promised I am back with the second installation of How To Give Up Power and Control. I’m very excited about this 3 part post, as I hope it will answer many of the questions that you might have about creating your ideal submissive relationship with a Dominatrix. Today’s post contains the core questions submissives usually have when speaking with me for the first time.

STRICT OR SENSUAL?

First time callers are often nervous and fumble over themselves to ask whether I’m strict or sensual. The truth is, this is much less important than your deep need to give up power, control and decision making to me and my skill in eliciting your strongest hidden desires. If you love the excitement of not knowing whether I will give you release, no matter how much you beg and plead, and if you desire to release only when I permit you, then you are a submissive and any other label you give me beyond Mistress Audrey, is really just beside the point.

BEING OWNED

What you want is to truly feel yourself submitting completely to me as you have never done so fully before. You want only to please and obey me. It’s been a long time since you had a Mistress to care for you and own you, hasn’t it?

COMPLETE DENIAL?

Most of my slaves are quickly at the place where they can only release while worshipping me. Maybe you like to be tested but ultimately have your limits. That’s fine too; you’ll find that the mind blowing head game of experiencing even just a little bit of denial can take you to the next level! Perhaps you’re one of the select few for whom denial is your game? Either way, if you ache for my instruction and allow that desire to mingle with the pleasure of being mine to obey and submit to, you are in for a treat. Buckle up slave! It’s going to be a bumpy pleasure-filled ride filled with agony and ecstasy the way that only Audrey can dole out!

ALTERNATIVES TO DENIAL

If I tell you “no” and do not permit you to release during our call or sexytexting session, we can arrange things so that you will receive your instructions on how to release for me at a later time. Perhaps I will have you read and master my “Butterfly Touch” eBook. Or maybe I will let you view a special picture of me (do you covet a private view of my toes? That can be arranged.) We can connect again after a time out, and there are as many delicious ways for me to impress your submissive mind with my will as there are ways for me to enjoy dominating you.

WHAT’S NEXT

Make sure to stop by tomorrow to read my third installation of Giving Up Power and Control. We will be covering Being Teased and Controlled, Being Punished, and Additional Fantasies. For a quick recap on yesterday’s discussion: Click here: How To Find the Right Dominatrix.

SCHEDULING AN APPOINTMENT

If you are already convinced and know that you want to experience a submissive relationship with me, then you can reach me after 8pm PST/11pm EST almost every evening. Please note, I am striving to be available during the afternoons a few days a week for those of you who are unable to connect in the evenings. Afternoon times are still in the beta phase, so please bear with me while I work out a viable afternoon schedule. I also schedule morning appointments with some of my callers every week with advance notice.

p.s. Make sure to delve into the index of my past posts. I cover many fascinating and taboo topics that may be of interest to you, for example you may enjoying my thoughts on Tease and Denial or men who like to cum on my heels.

I have many submissive callers from all walks of life. If you’ve found my blog, you may be searching for a Mistress to care for you and own you. I thought it would be nice to give you a detailed overview of what a session with me can be like {as you see, I can be a kind and caring Mistress as well as cruelly exacting}. Today’s post is the first of a three-part series that will run for the rest of this week.

HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT DOMINATRIX

Dominatrix/submissive relationships don’t just happen. A satisfying relationship with a Dominatrix requires lots of thought-provoking questions, a bit of patience, and some intuitive understanding. No two submissives are ever alike, nor am I like any Mistress you have ever encountered.

GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER

There may be immediate chemistry from the get-go, or you may be too nervous to be yourself right away. If you find yourself tongue-tied and unable to let your hair down, so to speak, do not worry. With some of my most committed long-term submissive callers, it’s not unusual for us to have several long calls or texting sessions before their nerves subside and we can really get down to ironing out the details of their deepest fantasies and desires.

CHANGING YOUR FANTASY

This happens more often than not. A caller may think that they know exactly what they want, but as we get into role play, personal discussion, and delve deeper into often yet-to-be-explored dark or unrealized sexual fantasies, submissives often surprise themselves by wanting to go in a completely different direction than they originally thought. This doesn’t mean that they’re not submissive, but that they’re craving a different sort of submission. This is the beauty of the kind of flowing Dominant/submissive relationship that I prefer to build with you, because it has room for growth, change and continual evolvement.

WHAT’S NEXT?

Tomorrow I’ll be covering Strict vs Sensual, Being Owned, Complete Denial, and Alternatives to Denial. I look forward to your comments and questions!

SCHEDULING AN APPOINTMENT

If you are already convinced and know that you want to experience a submissive relationship with me, then you can reach me after 8pm PST/11pm EST almost every evening. Please note, I am striving to be available during the afternoons a few days a week for those of you who are unable to connect in the evenings. Afternoons times are still in the beta phase, so please bear with me while I work out a viable afternoon schedule. I also schedule morning appointments with some of my callers every week with advance notice.

p.s. Make sure to delve into the index of my past posts. I cover many fascinating and taboo topics that may be of interest to you, for example you may enjoying my thoughts on Humiliation or how to apply for my Honorary Cuckold List.

Audrey loves big candy canes!

We all know that size matters. I talk to lots of guys who are size…challenged, but occassionally I also speak to guys who are so large that they worry about intimidating a woman because their penis is too gigantic! Just the other day Ms. Stephanie and I did a two-girl call with a guy who wanted sex therapy guidance on how to keep a woman from turning him down because he was too big! It was truly a fascinating and fun discussion as we explained how to turn a woman on no matter what size you are.

I will be around to help guide, dominate, and coach you through the holidays! My immediate weekend schedule:

Saturday, December 24: 7pm – 3am EST Sorry I am out with the flu–hope to be back soon!

Sunday, December 25: 1pm – 7pm EST

You can also check my twitter feed on the right hand index of both this blog and my other blog, CaughtInPanties.com for updates and of course you can always click over to read Audrey’s Daily Sexy Tweet to bring a naughty smile to your face!

I’d love to discuss your candy cane in detail…

Happy Holidays!

xo Audrey

I know you want to stroke hard, right now and cum…but not so fast!

You will cum when I tell you you can. Not sooner, not later, but when I tell you it’s okay. You will touch when I tell you it’s okay to touch. You will graze, caress, pull, slide, vibrate and stroke when I tell you to, how I tell you to, WHEN I tell you to.

You want to cum so badly, but remember I have control over you and you will do as I say! I am an expert at Tease and Denial {which btw does not necessarily mean that you will be denied, unless that’s your darkest desire} and you are a candidate for my Masturbation Hall of Fame. For an intensely pleasurable controlled stroking session, pick up the phone and set up an appointment with me. If you are quivering with as much anticipation as I think you are, we will be talking very soon!

Worship Audrey's Long Legs {you know you want to!}

Some men are ass men others are leg men, but did you know that you can be both! I’m often singled out for my ass, {it’s true} but a man who loves my legs always gets special attention. Why? Because at 5’9 in bare feet, I love the way my toned long legs can turn a man to quivering jelly.

LEG WORSHIP

If you’re a leg man then you’re probably busy day dreaming right now about lightly running your finger tips up my delicate ankles, kissing my calves, rubbing the back of my knees, worshiping my inner thighs…I know all about you. If you plan to worship my legs, you better have a bottle of delicious luxurious oil at hand to rub and knead into my legs and make them feel amazing. We can play for hours and I can teach you how!

HIGH HEELS AND STOCKINGS

Do you like to Cum on Heels? I thought so! I’ve written about it before and it’s one of my all-time most popular posts. You love the sound of high high heels clicking on the floor and a pair of shapely legs swaggering towards you. Oh, if you could only splay yourself on the ground before me to worship my heels and stockings and kiss my beautiful stockinged feet, suck on my stiletto heels, lick the pointed toe of my Cum-*uck-Me pumps…

You’re probably sitting there staring at the wide lacey top of my thigh-high stockings right now…mesmerized by that half inch of real estate where the little straps and snaps of my garter belt meet the lace of my stockings. Caught you, didn’t I?!

FISHNET FETISH

Does the thought of spreading my pair of long legs ensconced in fishnets and heels make you crazy? That seam that runs down the back of my legs gets you going, right? Ahhh, to play with my beautiful pair of long legs in seamed fishnet stockings on the sofa…watching the look on your face while you play with my legs is one of my favorite pastimes.

BARE FEET

I haven’t forgotten about my bare feet lovers. Forget the stockings, you only care about the arch of my foot in a pair of high strappy heels. You want to tickle my beautiful bare soles and rub your nose against the bottom of my feet. You dream of kissing my perfectly manicured toes and their deep cherry red glossy polish…I’d love to clamp my pretty feet right up against your face, maybe rub some other things with them while I’m at it!

I’m all about legs, what about you?

xo Audrey